I think defining "success" is key to achieving it.
For me, with an active A, success right now is protecting my kids from his insanity, allowing his hurtful actions & words to bounce off me, and detaching with love by living each day in the moment.
Sometimes true success is breaking free and moving on. We don't have any control over another person's thoughts or actions, but our destiny lies within our own hands. Hugs to you & praying for your "success story" <3