Hi Art:
Who cares about what others may think?!?!?
This is about you and if you feel like posting, post!
I think maybe you might be seeing those things in your own words and like Dee said, projecting.
Remember: take from the feedback what you like and leave what you don't.
Remember we are a family here and all of us want the best for you. Even if sometimes our approach isn't the best.
Hugs!!!