Originally Posted by
searching peace 
If he had only called and been half way nice, I would have given him his stuff. Even though there is a court order that states he cannot remove things from the house.
I didn't realise you had an order about this. If you have a court order to back you, then you can hold your ground.
Once again, don't let your anger make you breach the protective order yourself by communicating or aiding him to break it. It will significantly weaken your position. Remember that cheating (even if it has happened) isn't illegal and needs to be kept out of any dealings with police. It will make you sound like a vengeful wife instead of someone who is being intimidated by a bully.