Try not to let the opinions of others twist your reality, even if it's your own mother. All that matters is you're working on your own happiness. You are only 34 and I think it's pretty great that you have 2 months sober and there is absolutely nothing wrong with owning your own business. Kudos to you for going out of your way to visit your mother despite knowing you're probably up for another dosing of criticism from her on how to run your life. Just don't let that get in the way of your sobriety.