Originally Posted by
2littlegirls 
Hi, I don't know where to begin. I've been with my husband for 6 years and married for 1 year. He relapsed after 9 years. We just bought a house this last October and had a baby this past May. I can't help like feeling its my fault he relapsed because of the house,a baby, and marriage. I don't know what to do. I finally got him to call about getting help but don't know if he'll actually go through with it. I'm sick to my stomach. I don't know where to turn and I stumbled upon this website. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Welcome to the Board. I'm very thankful that you found us and took the step to post.
I highlighted the above in bold print because contrary to what you may think or believe, it's not your fault he relapsed. Adults make their own decisions for better or for worse, and for whatever reason, he chose to pick up.
Of course, the timing sucks, especially with a baby in the picture. So what I'm going to tell you is obvious, but it's also going to be difficult. The interests of your baby come first. How do you put that into action? Well, you have to know what you're up against, which is why you're here. We have plenty of women who have been in similar spots to yours. Pay close attention to what they share with you.
Please, keep us posted. And again, Welcome to the Board.