Leftover! OMG...I cannot believe what I am reading! I am in the exact situation. My son is also 42 years, has been addicted to drugs for over 22 years, has been in rehab countless times and has been incarcerated many times due to drugs and has attempted suicide several times. It's like I'm looking in the mirror! He is in jail now and I'm waiting for him to get out this October. I just don't know what I'm gonna do, because I know it will be a repeat of all the other times even though he is making me all these promises. I am worn out also. I just don't think I can do this anymore. Just don't know what I'm gonna do when he gets out. He is planning to come here and live with me.