((BoozeFree)) - Sorry you had an off day. For me learning how to feel off took a lot of practice. It still takes practice. My sponsor has had a couple issues at work and it's given her the opportunity to be a great role model for asking for support when she feels off. The beach sounds beautiful, but it's important to balance decompressing with asking for help. For me, too much time spent contemplating leads to isolation, which feeds the addiction.
PHRD - Welcome! I never stopped at one or two drinks, either. That's why I'm here! Twenty six days is a wonderful accomplishment, even more so when your partner is drinking. Keep up the good work.
Enjoy your days, Undies, one at a time!