Struggling with NC - he reached out to me
I have been doing very well with not reaching out to my AH. As hard as it has been, I have stayed away. He sent me a text a couple of hours ago (2 am my time) asking me to come over for, well, in his words "carnal purposes only." I didn't reply, but I was so tempted. Worst of all, I was tempted to take him up on his offer. But then I remembered why I went NC...I am not strong enough to be around him and maintain boundaries. I can't do it. At least not at this time.
My questions is this - do I respond at all? Just to say that I want to but I can't? And I think I already know in my heart what the answer is, but I need support on this one. I miss him terribly, but I think any contact right now would just rip that wound wide open again and send me in the wrong direction.
Thanks everyone -
HB