I'm happy for you Frank that you have the chance to be their for your Mom . She also was in a wheel chair for she had a stroke a few years before . My Dad wasn't in that good of health either . Dr's thought it was best to keep watch of her in the hosp.
WHY - I was lousy No good Drunk of a Daughter & I cared more about drinking . They both where alcoholic when I was a child , & stopped in their late 50's .
They decided they didn't want me around after I started drinking in my late 30's- so I drank more "wanted them to see what it was like to watch !!
I have nothing to hide - I know what I was