All this over stopping drinking? Really?
I would do as others say, step back and ignore them.
Let them leave messages instead of picking up their calls.
Don't engage with them on social media.
Keep your distance.
They are the one's in the wrong, not you.
Sometimes when we address our drinking issues, it makes other people uneasy about their own drinking.
They feel uncomfortable drinking themselves around us who have stopped.
It won't be a big deal in a few months time for them. But in all honesty, it should not be a deal now, which it seems to be.
If you and your husband are happy, then really thats all that matters.