Now he is leaving recovery early because he "doesn't need the sober house anymore."
there ya go.
rehab doesn't FIX or CURE people nor does it miraculously change them into nice, humble, contrite individuals. he was lying and putting up a false front from day one, i doubt that trait has changed, it sure doesnt sound like it. please don't be deluded into thinking he's turned into some modern day Gandhi.
no contact is really one our best tools. otherwise we are just picking the scab off the wound over and over. keep up with your program/therapy and day by day inch by inch you will heal and get better.