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Bunnyrabbit ok I just sent him a message that I'm staying in as I'm trying to sober up. ...
I can see how he might not have understood that this was long-term sober up. If he's used to you being out on the booze with him he probably just thought you'd already had a skin-full.
He isn't persecuting you. He just doesn't get it. Block his number if you need to, but there's nothing to get in a spin about. Early recovery is hard enough without looking for problems that aren't there. Give yourself a break