It's true V, we don't have to listen. I feel much freer knowing that. Today I was at the grocery store and passed one of the 5,000 wine displays (I swear the stores here have more wine then food!). As I've done for months, I started to snarl at it like a scared animal. But then I realized I was in control, and it couldn't get me because I had decided so. So then I confidently walked by like "haha! Screw you, fellas!" We do have the power to protect ourselves.