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Originally Posted by
onmyownrecovery 
I don't (I can't) want to tell them how much of a problem I have. I am scared to death they will see me as an unfit mother. Who knows - my in laws might try to take her away from me.
You haven't let concerns about being an unfit mother stop you from drinking. Don't let them stop you from quitting.