thanks for the replies. we had an ok night and talked some but I didnt bring this up yet. watching and looking for more signs of opiate use compared to weed. One thing is he falls asleep whenever he sits down, or lays down immediately. and hes not eating much but has said his stomach has been upset off and on for a couple weeks now. It will take a miracle to get him to the doctor, not sure it will happen. Im still in shock he could be using hard drugs, hiding it, lying in bed next to me after using heroin. I feel sick if I think about it.