Originally Posted by
DitzyDandelion 
Is there a chance that crazy drunken me trashed that relationship partly cause he was such a none drinker and was so supportive of me going sober? Did drunk me consider him a threat?
That may be DD. I often feel like being an alcoholic is like having a split personality. Drunken me has taken over sober me too many times to count. Maybe that is one of the reasons they say this disease is baffling and cunning? FWIW I think you are better off on your own right now. That situation/relationship did sound very healthy or good for anyone. You'll be better off in the long run
