Thank you for your replies
Wedding plans have most definitely been put on hold and although I've always aspired to be a mother, I'm unable to have children.
After he lost his first job we did attend a few CR meetings together, but unfortunately did not make it habit.
I am painfully shy (online forums are a god send) and have a hard time participating in person. However I am going to go, if only to listen. Hopefully he will choose to go too.