I hope you do reconsider and decide to stick around. I felt 'a' or 'the' click after 20 plus years and it stuck, that really resonated with me. I've been a nondrinker since I came to SR and comfortably so not soon after signing up, there were of course rougher than not patches, but on the whole having had that click and sticking to my resolve to remain a nondrinker , I've done it and no one more surprised than me, well the old preclick me would be the most surprised , present me the one in control understands that I am in control and is not surprised that I will Not give it up.
SR can be a great resource and community of fellow nondrinkers, don't let post and bad feelings be the reason you take a potential resource for resolve keeping away from your self.
I was going to comment that I thought the best post in the thread for DitchtheWine was number 8.
wish you well and hope to see you around