My answer for dealing with my A....... Im' sorry. I am not sure how many times I said that in a night when he was drunk or sober. Always looking for a fight so he could leave and go drink. Get a way from me. I would constantly tell him I'm sorry. I am not sure if I read that in alanon or what. But it sure defused a lot of junk that happened in my house. Did it really mean anything to me to say that? No. Just say it and get him off your case. Yuck!! Don't miss all those sorry's
Hugs OUAT!!!