I HEAR you. I see how ridiculous the responses I type, then delete look. I don't WANT to believe it. Sadly I want him to change into a wonderful significant other as an alchoholic so everyone wins... Ever happen?!!?!?!? (joking)
I NEEDED to talk to people who know and have been there. That's why I came here. He's TRYING to be more present in the relationship over the past few days. I set my expectations low and expect him to stop.