Originally Posted by
pookielou 
to refinance or sell and I'm so torn
It's my dream home
From one who has dabbled in real-estate and living for the last 26 years in what to me is my (our) dream home.
I say try your very best so as to keep your dream home.
You may regret it forever if you let it go.
I bought out my ex-wife 24 years ago.
Kept this house going on my own for a long time.
Remarried 10 years ago to a sweet third school teacher.
We together love this home.
We would never be able to replace it for the original investment made.
MM