To sell or not to sell
I have been divorced from my AH for almost two years. I am currently staying in what used to be our marital residence. Per our decree, I need to decide whether to refinance or sell and I'm so torn.
The mortgage is hefty. And while I could bear it, I'm not sure I want to. However, I am so close to my parents who are my strong support team. It's my dream home that we built together before things took a big turn for the worst. I love my home and it's location.
Part of me wants to move. The memories (some good, some bad) are all around me. Staying makes me wonder "WHY?" he made the decision to leave me, his daughter, our dream home, our dog for his drinking, cheating lifestyle. I simply don't get it.
I'm angry that this decision has been forced upon me due to the decisions of my ex. But I would love any input from others that had to leave behind a dream home or have decided to stay and move forward. Thanks.