I am attending Alanon again and the other guy and I have only been dating a month and a half so you're right. Definitely marriage isn't in the near future. I'm ok being single and apparently casual dating doesn't work for me. I'm 28, have a successful career, keep fit, no kids, live alone, pretty. I'm not complaining at all, but the men I've gone out with tend to want to snatch me up pretty quickly. On the surface I'm great, but inside these men don't know I'm a mess. My dad says it's the price I pay for beauty, lol.
I'm going to push the breaks on both and focus on my own recovery. Thanks for your words.