My neighbor came over today just to chat-asked me what had happened with my ex. I broke down. Told her a lot. She just told me to pray for him and she hopes he heals whatever childhood issues he has as they are obviously killing the man I married. I told her I had acted out if anger so much and she told me I was justified based on his actions. She asked me how I wasn't filled with anger and hate and I just cried, "God!!!!". He has taken it. I have a million good memories with my ex-memories I will cherish forever and the coolest two girls and a God that is merciful and mighty and a deeper understanding of myself and the power of truth and forgiveness. I'm truly blessed. We either kill our sin or our sin kills us. This was true for me. I pray he finds salvation and healing before something worse happens to him. Shifting perspective is everything. Thank you thank you for your words-y'all are my lifeboat in this journey. Peace!