Poh-I spent years praying for my marriage-praying for my husband to stop drinking and to convict him of his sins. Things changed and a whole new person was born when I prayed for Him to change me-He answered abundantly. Our marriage got a lot better. He showed me what I needed to work on and convict myself of....it wasn't pretty. It took confronting some pretty yucky and emotional things-you know what I mean. I walk with Him now. I didn't for 33 years and my life showed it. He gave me the strength and courage to stand up to my then husband and has revealed what I have needed to see to move on with my life-for me and our girls. I haven't prayed for my will for years-I pray for His. I do pray for my ex all the time-love was not an issue in our marriage as I do still love him. But he is turning into a memory and an addict has no place in my home or with our girls. Period.