Why would anyone not want to be friends with you?
From your posts I know you're a caring compassionate person - but you've been through a lot in a few years, and maybe you're still working through that?
I'm a lot quieter than I used to be too, and I love my home comforts over travelling - but none of that makes me dull.
I'm willing to bet it doesn't make you dull either Sasha
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