"Enabling" is vague and overbroad
I don't like the term enabling. My sister today said something that indicates that she thinks that doing ANYTHING to help my brother in any way shape or form is "enabling." That's ridiculous. I told her that it's not enabling when the efforts are towards recovery and medical help. That's just my opinion as the term is not without controversy.
I agree with
Commentary: Why the Term "Enabling" Does More Harm Than Good - Partnership for Drug-Free Kids