I don't mean all men of course bc there are some good ones out there but it does seem like men are the most insensitive creatures. I don't know anything about your history with this man but is there a chance he did it on purpose trying to distract you from something he's doing? I have seen that happen more than one occasion over the years.. I know it's awful to even think about but it goes on more than people think it does... Nothing personal at all.. Just something to think about.