Thank you, firebolt. For your love, compassion and bravery. For honesty, and for being open to changing your own behaviors.
Many people, both the abused and the observers, are unable to break out of their denial and reach out for help. They're unable to connect with their own power that they have within. Congratulations on finding yours. May it always shine brightly and fill you with love. (((Hugs))) Stay safe.