You are so brave. I am really sorry you have been put in this situation.
I was that abused woman one night in a bar full of all my friends, and no one raised a hand as my live-in BF dragged me out of the bar (that he owned) by my hair while I was on my back on the ground.
Cowards, every single person in that bar.
Hero, Firebolt.
It's never going to change as long as women are acting from fear and paralyzed into staying. Women have to stand up. If not for themselves, for each other. I have spent many an hour in the convening decades trying to convince someone to leave an abusive relationship.
I agree with Lexi, I'd never let him near me or my children ever again.