LOl! I would like to shout Glefan's words from the rooftops!!
When I divorced my narcissistic husband and I left with 3 little kids (aand also returned to school, again for a m ore advanced degree) I would never have made it without a community of other (mostly) divorced mothers. I always had a shoulder to cry on or to rely on. The staff at the daycare center became part of our extended family.....
Men may come and go...but, it is your true girlfriends and women friends who will be there when the tough times come.....
dandylion