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endlesspatience Thanks so much everyone for your valuable feedback. It occurs to me that if this friend was someone I was close to, then "blaming" them in my words would have been a very negative way of dealing with it. Better I think in this case just to let the whole thing go but hold onto the valuable lesson that meeting someone in a bar is going to put me at a great big risk.
Good on ya. Veeerrry huge risk.
Also ,IMO, valuable lesson on who is responsible for your recovery. Who is responsible for alcohol ever touching your lips again.