Dragonfly Touch down
I agree that at times we can allow ourselves to go to some places where alcohol is probably going to be. Yesterday I attended such an event and found to my surprise that I was far more interested in the beautiful, creative art surrounding me, then the tall, lovely woman offering wine. It didn't interest me. Now, will I repeatedly attend occasions where alcohol is present and most folks are drinking it? No. but like you mentioned the dragonfly, I can touch down gather in what I need and fly off to a secure place.