It might be time for your husband and friends to arrange alternate transportation while you do things you'd enjoy instead of going to wineries and breweries.
I would do that for my Lady if she really wanted.... Once. Or perhaps once in a great while. But in general, I don't go to places that exist solely for the purpose of drinking. It's not fun for me, it's not useful to me and it doesn't support or honor my choice of sobriety.
Some things did have to change in my life when I chose sobriety. Honestly, I have not suffered one single bit by no longer going to breweries and wineries and hanging around with drunk people.