Hi DonTolan47,
Big congratulations on 21 days! 
I was just focused on not drinking in the beginning, too. But, we grow a little bit and then we need more.
My Big Plan is still kind of sparse; I visit this site
a lot (and post), I am in counselling, I started prior to stopping alcohol, but now I feel like I can actually work on the past crap that I was trying to bury with empty booze bottles. And I read books on recovery, memoirs and such.
I am trying to find some kind of face to face meetings. I haven't had success with that yet but I will persist.
Happy 21 Days Sober To You!!!!!!