I'm sorry you are hurting sleepie, but I think getting off the benzos is fantastic, even if you do have some issues with tics--
If I were you, and my boyfriend was offering to help me so I could have some time
and energy to focus on my sobriety, I would take him up on it.
You've said already money and resources are easy for him, so since it
will cause him no hardship, why not?
I would hardly call him a co-dependent from your previous postings about him.
He seems perfectly happy to let you drink, or do benzos, or whatever and not to intervene.
Besides, that part is on him and not for you to manage anyway.
I think looking into some free treatment options in your city would be a criteria I would set for myself in order
to be sure I was maximizing the opportunity I had to focus on recovery.
A "jump start" with concentrated work might be exactly what turns the whole thing around.
Sending you a hug
