Pippi......personally, I applaud you for drawing the boundaries where YOU need them to be to protect YOURSELF.
As I recall---he is pretty much a poster child for Narcissistic Disorder----and, we well know that these people turn all the social nicieties th at apply to normal social relations topsy-turvey....
Do what you gotta do girl---and don't give a damn what anybody thinks about it. It took you a l ong t ime to get to this point!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
dandylion