I received my pension estimate today which was all I was waiting for to initiate the mediation to proceed with divorce, all I have to do is print off bank and credit card statements. I contacted my solicitor so she could get everything in motion only for her to advise me that ex a solicitor hasn't written back to her confirming that ex a agrees to mediation actually he hasn't replied to her previous letters at all!!
She will write to them again and see if they reply.
Now it's here and will actually progress I don't know how I feel about it. Suppose when I was waiting for my pension estimate the divorce wasn't happening, now it is.