((Robby)) - I'm sorry about the pain but I do know several people that pain management works well as it's not all about narcotics, some other stuff makes the narcotic work better or longer..something like that.
We had home hospice for my buddy that died from alzheimers. They weren't around, all the time, but if you needed them, the nearest nurse came immediately. Anything I asked for I got to take care of him and the family was always involved.
I hope you and Melissa get to go on a nice vacation with the sale of the boats. You both need it and deserve it.
Love, hugs and prayers,
Amy