Athletic things? Art classes? Lots of people in your area are runners, I'm sure. Cary, Indiana? How about kayaking, or Mud Runs, tennis, racquetball, hiking, or volunteering somewhere? It's just a matter of filling your time with things that don't have drinking involved.
I mean, of course people are going to drink at parties, bars, sporting events, and BBQs. If you don't want to be around that, don't go to those type events. If life is full and you are busy - parties kind of fade into the background.