i don't know if you can do anything--but maybe you can express how it made made you feel/she can express how it made her feel--maybe wait till he is sober. my husband would black out and cross the line-- push friends, throw drinks on me-- and then feel sorry for himself than no one thought it was funny, no one liked him, etc. but when he was sober, and my friend's husband called and was really angry, straight forward--toldhim how much it hurt her to be pushed around- and he listened, and felt awful and started going to aa. of course, he didn'tstay sober, but.....