We did talk a lot when she got home and I hope I helped her feel better. I didn't realize that he told her I was a bitch (because he was drunk last night and I was mad at him for that.) Thanks for the input. I am just worried now that he is starting a new phase in his drinking. It probably is going to get a lot worse before it gets better. My daughter has been away at college and hasn't had to deal with this for a while. I feel so bad that she has to. My other daughter is still at home and we are used to him. And we just go about our business. Its just so sad. Way to ruin his life.