Tommy I agree with the others that she has a lot to process, and her distraction might be a good sign. It's common to read on these forums that the recovering spouse is distant/grumpy/distracted/different. I hope it changes as time goes by, but she can't take it all on at once after years of drinking. It's just impossible for her to absorb it instantly.
Try to find your own counsellor to help you process your understandable anger. Now you don't have the 'sober spouse' role to play you can work out a better more constructive life for yourself.