During these slow sunny days, with lots of BBQs and outdoor dining going on, my thoughts reflexively turn to white wine, bubbles and frozen margaritas. And then I direct them onwards.
I understand a little about what works for me: and it's being positive, focussing on the good and actively making things happen. Too much dwelling on problems such as my alcoholism can put them front and centre - exactly what I want to avoid. The paradox is that I enjoy reading here a lot and appreciate one of the key SR learnings: stay close and don't ever ever forget that you are and always will be an alcoholic.
In my sporting days I learnt to deal with physical discomfort and maintain focus, in my business life I've learnt to play the numbers and stack the odds towards positive outcomes. Now I'm trying to parlay some of these skills into sobriety and a better lifestyle and relationships.
Guess I'll be busy
Thanks SR!