have to try and find a way to "enjoy yourself" i mean just yourself by yourself. I'm alone as in no local friends and such. I have a wife and kids at least. but I get lonely from time to time having no local friends to just go hangout iwht or osmething. On one hand it can be good i'm an introvert anyway and I tend to get annoyed and tired of putting up with other people i deal with its hard for me to make friends because I prefer good friends and dont like to waste time with just random aquantances hanging out just for the sake of hanging out. I prefer quality social time etc..
So that being said I've hadn to learn how to just be ok being alone. Theres a lot of cool aspects of being alone. but yeah I get it now and then it can stink.
getting drunk or high or something however isnt really gonna solve the problem.