Old 06-26-2015, 06:40 PM
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Tommyh
It`s ok to stay sober
 
Join Date: Mar 2003
Location: Central NC
Posts: 20,903
did he offer his services as your sponsor yet?


one day you may be thankful for him.He is ruffling the feathers of a few.Let your defect(s) take you into the solution of the 12 steps and he will,in reality,be helping you get better.It takes what it takes to get us deeper into the steps,and I have been there also.I ended up on page 552 of the big book,praying for some guy.I didn`t even make it 2 weeks before I started seeing him in a different light.
Man,did I screw up a good resentment or what?

one more thing,service,think of being of service.You may think I have rocks in my head,but do something good for him,more than once.
Unconditional love sometimes starts with unconditional service to those in our path,whether we like them or not.If i just did service to those I like,it would be conditional service
Right action on my part helps me get better,not what they do,but what I do in response to them builds character and my character needed a rebuilding
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