My daughter's DOC is mainly alcohol, but she uses heroin, meth and benzos. She claims that she "can't help it, I'm an addict and no one will help me" She wanted money for food she said, but I know it was for booze or drugs. I had food delivered to her home a few days ago. She continues to lie and steal, manipulating others to feed her habit. When I am angry, it seems easier to set boundaries and hang up when she gets abusive. When I am sad, my heart just aches and grieves for her. I know I didn't cause it, and I cannot fix it. Nothing I have done has ever helped in the long run. I fear the phone call from the hospital, or worse. I feel helpless.