Kate, I'm so sorry for what brought you here. You recognize the enabling. That's GOOD. Please please PLEASE do not respond to her with any "help". $, transportation, a place to live... nothing. As you can see, that has never worked in the past. Nothing changes if nothing changes. Hopefully once she sees she's truly on her own to figure it out, perhaps THAT will be her rock bottom and she will choose to come clean. You say she "uses"... what's her DOC other than the alcohol?