Jody.....I have just got to ask....how do you happen to know so much about what is happening between him and his wife since the day he gave you the
"boot?".
You need to bite the bullet and cut all form of contact with him. Remove all reminders of him from your life.
You are trying to hitch your wagon to the wrong star.
Listen to Taylor Swift's song----We Are NEVER, Ever, Ever Getting Back Together Again!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
dandylion