Oh honey, not one person here is going to say I told you so, or let you have it. So many of us have done the rinse and repeat over and over. He is an unstable man who will likely always be unstable, sober or not. Be prepared that if she does not give in, he will come running back to you again.
Continue with the good work you were doing on YOU. You are worth every ounce of money and time that it takes. In the mean time, we, your SR friends, are here with you, walking this with you. No one will judge you here!
XXX